Marriage and Relationship Goals for September

Marriage and Relationship Goals for September

Today I am linking up with Amberly @ A Prioritized Marriage for the first time. She does a monthly Marriage and Relationship Goals linkup that I have read month after month but have never joined. The only reason I can think of for not linking up earlier is that I forget about it till it is too late and I don’t have time to come up with a post. Well, today I am making myself do it. So there.

I have been kind of a meany lately. This weekend, I really noticed this problem in myself. I was grumpy, irritable, and just downright emotional about little stupid things. I have been trying to do too much and letting things get to me. And poor Pearson got to be the innocent victim. He handled it all great! I have the best husband ever, hands down! He would have never even called me out on anything. He just tried to help me with whatever it was and calm me down.

My goal this month is to be positive in everything I do so that I don’t put even more stress on my wonderful husband. No more taking out my frustrations on him just because he is there. Whenever anything doesn’t go exactly the way I wanted or planned, I will stop, step back, take a deep breath, and come at it from a positive angle. I will not let the stress get to my head and hurt my relationship with Pearson. I have already committed to several extra things these next few months so cutting them from my calendar is not an option. Besides, that is not really the problem. The problem is my attitude. That is what I am going to change this month. I know it won’t be easy and I will need to rely on God to help me change and on Pearson for support, but slowly I will become the person I want to be and that my husband needs me to be.

Thanks for reading!

I'm a millennial wife and fur-mom living in Oregon. I'm passionate about marriages and making them last. I believe it's possible to build a marriage that will endure whatever comes your way and all it takes is a little work. And trust me, your marriage is so worth that effort!

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